Epiphany - looking for love causes love to evade you. Click here to comment

I just realized something… people say you tend to find love when you least expect it. And when you’re looking for it, you won’t find it.

I think that when I’m looking, I have an idea in my head that I am actively trying to match, and if a girl doesn’t meet that match then I don’t pursue.

When I’m not looking, that criteria doesn’t exist, so when I meet a girl–without my expectations–I am pleasantly surprised and enraptured.

-TJ